This memoir meets sexy self-help book is my intimate exposé of a profound and provocative experiment of becoming thirty different women in thirty days, which transformed a heartache due to infidelity into a juicy love affair with my husband, in and out of the bedroom.

It is a courageous story of reclamation, forgiveness, gratitude, spiritual awakening and epic love. Read how you can tap into the Love Archetypes, not only to add spice to your relationships and save a relationship from ending, but to find wholeness and experience radical self love.

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I wrote this book for women who want to feel worthy, whole, beautiful and sexy again, especially after a betrayal. So many of us have felt disconnected from our truest self. While I was going through the "meat grinder" of infidelity, smashing the shames of childhood trauma, and trying to break free from the cages of societal should and should nots, I didn't realize that I would discover the keys to unlocking my feminine superpowers and finding my erotic sovereignty. I tell you glorious beings, that when you know and accept your whole self, there is nothing that will stop you from experiencing epic love. I hope you enjoy the sexy soulful journey from betrayal to bliss.



Praises and Reviews

"I watched Coltrane go from hiding to a shining sexy star because of this project! She wanted to figure out how to create ongoing, ever-expanding passion with her husband. She wanted a relationship that continued to grow and challenge her creatively. It turned out that unleashing that desire set loose an incredible artistry and creativity in her life and marriage. I remember the day I told her I was so impressed with her wild creativity, that she had to write a book about it!" - Regena Thomashauer, Authoress of Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts, and the NY Times Best Seller, Pussy: A Reclamation.

"My husband, Rev. Cecil Williams, calls Coltrane a prophet. Someone who sees and seeks deeper, more spirituality and beyond the boundaries of labels... especially of women. Coltrane is an excellent guide for me as a woman who has experienced her creativity and genius in creating workshops for women to embrace and celebrate ourselves as full and powerful human beings. She asks us to accept all of all of the "faults" we have self-judged and been critical of. She sees these "faults" as assets, and turns the negative that we feel about ourselves into the full sensual and whole beings we are by transforming the paralysis of shame into driving power of fierce and positive re-creation of ourselves." - Janice Mirikitani, Poet and Activist, Authoress of Out of the Dust


"This book was life changing for me, especially because I went through some of the same experiences." - Ilene H., Lawyer


"I learned this weekend from my mighty warrior friend Coltrane Lord, that if you want something to lose its power, you have to share it. When others eyes are on it, it's power to hurt you is diminished. While it scares the heck out of me, the light and freedom she radiates is something I want...I need." - TL Schmidt, WI

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