Coltrane Lord

Shapeshifter. Love Addict. Soul Seeker in Stilettos.

This is me, for now.

I’m also a hopeless romantic that is all about the light, yet not at all afraid of the dark.  I flow like the wind, sometimes soft, sometimes wild, always present.  

I am a little bit practical, a lot a bit “woo woo,” and can’t decide if I’m more mermaid or unicorn, so I choose both.

Welcome to the light and breezy side of my multifaceted soul (meet my deep, soulful side here).

I’m on a mission to amplify love on this planet

because LOVE has always been the only real power that creates healing and growth for all beings.  And that’s a good thing.

My love story, like so many other women, is that my heart had been wounded by betrayals of love, my body frozen by the shame of social judgement, and my soul splintered by childhood fear and abuse.  

Over the years, I had become a Vanilla Lover.

My relationship became boring, drama filled, ruptured, almost over.  I desperately wanted to learn the foundations of a good relationship; overcoming old habits, trusting fully, forgiving, honoring individual growth separately and in union, feeling pleasure in the body, giving pleasure with delight, and communicating honestly with my partner.  

I wanted to learn the truth of how to get back home to true love, while at the same time fully enjoying the process.

I wanted to learn how to be a Kinky Vanilla Lover

- a lover who fiercely stands for her pleasure in the sacredness of love, who creates passion in the soft embrace of kindness, who embodies variety with the integrity of the heart.

My journey is sexy, funny, and a rollercoaster of ups and downs.  

During my quest to unleash my undiscovered feminine powers, I found myself with an insatiable need to be inspired, tantalized, and turned-on by what I read, researched and experienced because that is precisely what was missing in my life and relationship.

After a serious display of Self-Help Addiction, I decided to take measures into my own hands and conduct an experiment where I was to transform into 30 different women in 30 days, with my partner.  I wanted to know if I could be “everything” he desired.

This project turned my relationship upside down, inside out and sideways...and I mean that in a good way.

What I learned was more than just spicing up a relationship, I learned about the many facets of my being that were shut down and wanted a voice.  I learned how to be fully and unapologetically ME with clarity and confidence.  I learned the depth and variety of my individual soul.  I learned to heal past love wounds and make choices from a fully empowered place.  I learned the secrets and magic of Self-Love that elevate us all to the next level.

Thank you for joining me on my journey. Let’s continue to experiment and shapeshift together.  Let’s take each other higher in love!



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